Bar Girl Check & Investigation Service
Are you involved in a relationship with a lady that’s working at a bar in Thailand? Perhaps you met your girlfriend during a recent holiday and formed a relationship after meeting her in a bar. Or, maybe you met her online through internet dating and only later discovered her involvement in the adult entertainment industry.
If you are not familiar with the Asian bar scene, then it's important to understand that many bars in Asia are effectively brothels which also sell alcohol. Ladies working in Thai bars are often expected to leave the bar with customers. They earn money in a variety of different ways: Each time someone buys them a drink they will receive a commission; if a customer would like to take a lady from the bar then he will need to pay a “bar fine” to the bar, of which the lady will also receive a commission. Some bars will pay the lady a nominal salary which is intended to be subsidised through drinks and bar fines.
It is very rare that a lady working in a bar will be honest about her lifestyle and activities. Common excuses among ladies working in bars include “I don’t leave with customers, I’m just the cashier!” or “I’m a manager of the bar” or “I’ve only worked there for one week/month”. We have found that these claims are rarely true.
Bar girls will often calls their boyfriends at the same time every night after finishing work as “proof” that they are in their own room and not with a customer... In some cases the lady will only agree to ”short time” arrangements in order to call her boyfriend and avoid him becoming suspicious; other times the lady will simply call her boyfriend in front of her customers. Discovering the truth of the situation while you are out of the country is often impossible, and tactics such as calling after work every night can provide a misguided sense of security.
Even if you think she is different, even if she has a believable story, we always recommend being realistic if your girlfriend works in a bar.
How we Check Thai Bar Girls
- 1. Honey trap investigation service: Honey trap investigations (also known as “decoy service”) are one of the most common methods for investigating bar girls. This service entails sending an undercover agent to the bar. Once the agent is deployed, he will seek out the subject and engage with her in the same way that a normal customer would do. By speaking with the subject in this way, we can check to find the different services that she offers (or does not offer), and her fees for those services. We can also ask questions such as querying whether or not she currently has a boyfriend (the usual answer from bar girls is ’no’).
- 2. Personal surveillance service: During surveillance we will discreetly monitor the subject; following her and collecting photos/video where possible. Surveillance means to watch the subject, but not to speak with her or engage with her in any way. If we are monitoring the subject inside her bar or another establishment, then we would need an allowance for purchasing drinks in order to remain inside those places. Surveillance can often entail many hours or days of work in order to achieve the desired result.
- 3. Background check service: We offer a comprehensive background check service in order to further safeguard your interests and provide peace of mind. Background checks can verify a variety of different factors relating to your partner’s past relationships and lifestyle - such as checking employment and marriage/divorce history. We can also check to find if your partner is currently on dating websites. If you would like us to check whether or not the lady is leaving with customers then we would need to perform our decoy or surveillance service rather than running a background check.
The Important of Professional Services
Many bar girls are effectively professional liars; they have often had foreign boyfriends in the past and know exactly what to say in order to put your mind at ease. Some bar girls will even have multiple different overseas boyfriends at the same time. Uncovering the truth without instructing a private detective can be extremely difficult or impossible in most cases.
If your girlfriend is working at a Thai bar and telling you that she does not leave with customers, this is very easy for us to check and verify. We can find out exactly how she behaves when you’re not around and report back to you.
Don’t be fooled and lied to! We are experts in this field and can quickly establish the truth, saving you time, money and heartache. We can check bar girls in Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket, Koh Samui, Chiang Mai, and in all other areas of Thailand.
We offer free quotes for all work. Get in touch with us today and see how we can help you. Our fees for these services depends on the location of the case - if you would like a quote then please mention the exact bar/location when getting in touch with us.
Frequently Asked Questions
During our standard decoy services, our agent typically arrives at the bar, identifies the subject, buys her drinks, and asks the relevant questions. He will then settle the bill and leave alone. There is generally no need to pay the bar fine or take the lady out of the premises to establish her intentions. However, if you specifically require us to pay the bar fine, all related expenses must be paid upfront in addition to the higher service fee, as it is a different operation from the standard decoy service. Please provide full details, including the exact location and what you require, so we can confirm if it is possible and issue a tailored quote.
In most cases, yes—this is generally part of their role. Some bars even impose minimum bar fine requirements that ladies must meet weekly or monthly to remain eligible for a wage. However, it ultimately depends on the individual and the particular bar’s culture and policies.
This depends heavily on the circumstances, and even with a full explanation, it can be difficult to recommend definitively. For example, if a woman is waiting to meet another man at the bar later that evening—a man she already knows, who intends to spend significant time and money with her—she might refuse approaches from strangers beforehand. In such cases, a decoy may mistakenly suggest she is faithful. Conversely, surveillance could offer a broader and more accurate picture of her behaviour. Each situation is unique, so please contact us for tailored advice.
No—hacking is illegal, and we do not offer any hacking services. Please do not request hacking, as we strictly adhere to the law. If your girlfriend works in a bar, we can assist with background checks, decoy operations, or surveillance instead. We have also found many instances of bar workers appearing in adult content, and we can investigate their presence on dating sites and apps. Additionally, we offer mobile phones pre-installed with legal parental monitoring software. However, we do not engage in any illegal activities.
If you are financially supporting a lady who is no longer employed at a bar, we can assist by conducting surveillance to monitor her activities and lifestyle. Fees vary depending on the location, so please contact us with the full details to receive a quote. Surveillance involves following the subject and capturing photos and video evidence. Even if she claims to have left the nightlife industry, many women continue working freelance or meet men via dating apps. If she is located in a nightlife-heavy area such as Pattaya or has a history in the scene, surveillance can be particularly effective. Please see our website for further services we offer.