Is my Thai girlfriend cheating on me?

November 23, 2020 - Reading time: 6 minutes

Thai women as a whole generally remain loyal to their partners and acts of infidelity are typically frowned upon in Thai society. However, most women in Thailand cannot speak English and only become romantically involved with Thai men. When it comes to relationships between Thai women and foreign men, lines can become blurred and what is perceived as acceptable behaviour can vary, especially if there are financial incentives at play.

A Thai lady that is married to a Thai man might have little to gain be cheating on him with other Thai men. However, a lady that is living in somewhere such as Bangkok or Pattaya, and regularly meeting foreigners, has the potential to gain vast amounts of money through forming multiple relationships. The incentive of making money is often enough for a lady to bend her morals, especially if she comes from an impoverished family that might be struggling financially. If a lady can help to feed her family and provide them with a better quality of life through lying to her boyfriend, or having multiple boyfriends, then typically the needs of her family will come before that of a foreign spouse.

Infidelity in Thailand

If you suspect that your Thai girl is cheating on you, then we think there is something to be said for trusting your instincts. However, it’s important to recognize the difference between a lady having an affair, and a lady that is involved with the Thai girlfriend scam. 

There is a subset of women in Thailand that aim to involve themselves with multiple different foreign men, all of whom believe that they are the lady’s only boyfriend. Women that practice this scam usually do so over a number of years, which allows them to hone their skills and they often become experts at manipulating their foreign boyfriends. Some women will also share tips between themselves on the best tactics, and write messages for each other’s boyfriends in the English language.

If you are involved with a Thai lady that makes her living through scamming her foreign boyfriends, then figuring out you are being lied to can prove extremely difficult, or impossible in many cases. Scammers become excellent liars and know exactly the things to say to put your mind at ease. They build a toolbox filled with convincing excuses to explain away their activity. They learn the lies which work and the ones which don’t. They learn not to ask for money early on in a relationship, and how to get the most from each boyfriend.

In order to catch a professional scammer, it often takes a professional investigator.

We have caught literally thousands of cheating Thai women over the years… We can help to investigate your Thai girlfriend and find out whether or not she is telling the truth or being faithful to you. Many of our clients would never have got to the truth of their relationship without engaging our services, and are usually glad to finally uncover the truth.

Understanding your Thai girlfriend 

We feel that it’s important to fully understand your Thai girlfriend’s circumstances, her background, and her family’s circumstances. Due to the Thai concept of ‘saving face’, Thai ladies tend to be reluctant when it comes to sharing information about their families and personal lives early on in a relationship.

Many ladies that seek out relationships with foreigners come from poor farming villages, their families are often impoverished and struggling with debt. However, don’t expect your girlfriend to be upfront and honest about this. In Thai culture, exposing your vulnerabilities can be seen as losing face, which is a fate worse than death for many Thais. In addition to this, Thai ladies are not stupid and fully understand that explaining they are in debt, or from a very poor family, will not be taken well by a lot of men... Some guys might simply walk away from a relationship if they realize that their Thai girlfriend is very poor.

Why does this matter? Well, if your Thai girlfriend is in dire need of money to support her family, repay loans, or for any other reason, then she might be more likely to try and earn extra cash through working in the sex industry or through forming romantic relationships with multiple foreign men.

Of course, your girlfriend will not want to share information with you that is likely to put you off or damage your relationship… Finding out that your partner is in a huge amount of debt, or that her family home is a wooden shack on the verge of collapse, will be perceived as discouraging to most Thai women.

Earning extra cash through the sex industry is easier than you might think. If your girlfriend is living in a city such as Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket, or Chiang Mai, then it’s easy for her to freelance at a nightclub or bar. Freelancing is simply the act of meeting with foreign men for sex, whilst having no commitments to a particular establishment. Many women that work ‘normal’ jobs during the daytime will freelance in the evenings to have fun and earn extra cash. Other women will use dating apps to seek out foreign men – some women can have 4 or 5 boyfriends at the same time.

Is your girlfriend working in a Thai bar? 

It’s important to realize that bars in Thailand are more like brothels which serve alcohol rather than conventional beer bars that you might find in a Western country. The goal of women working in Thai bars is to leave their bar with customers as often as possible.

If your girlfriend is working at a bar in Thailand then the odds that she will be cheating on you whilst you are out of the country are substantially higher. In fact, most of the Thai bar girls investigated by us are found to be cheating on their partners (see our blog post: Thai girlfriend statistics)

Bar girls often earn a living through lying to their boyfriends and continuing to leave their bar with customers while their boyfriends are out of the country… Most men fall for the bar girl scam hook line and sinker.

If your girlfriend is working a bar in Thailand then we can help to check her activities while you are not around, for many guys that are involved with bar girls this the only way to discover the truth about their partners. Choosing to hire a private investigator can save you huge amounts of time, money and heartache.

Check your Thai girlfriend

If you’re wondering whether your Thai girlfriend is cheating on you then we can help. We offer various methods that can be used to investigate Thai ladies, such as our background check service, personal surveillance, decoy service, and more. Please feel free to get in touch with us explaining your situation and we will endeavour to offer the best and most cost effective solution in your case; we offer free, no pressure quotes for all work.


Debt recovery in Bangkok

November 20, 2020 - Reading time: 4 minutes

Debt recovery is often a difficult task, and this could not be more true in a place such as Thailand. Debtors will often try to hide from their obligations; tracking them down and encouraging them to make good on their debts can prove difficult, and in some cases, recovering money might not possible.

There are numerous firms offering debt recovery services in Thailand, with varying methods on offer. New companies spring up every year and it can often take them some time to grasp the difficulties faced in this industry. Ultimately, it falls on our clients to decide on the most appropriate tactic to be used in their case. 

We offer a debt recovery service which is unique, and in most cases highly effective. If we are able to accept your case then we will offer you a free, no obligation quote. We don’t try to pressurize or encourage our clients into proceeding with a case, once we have provided a quote it is a matter for our clients to decide whether or not they would like to go ahead with our service.

How we can help

If you’re looking for a debt collector to make phone calls to debtors from the comfort of their office with the hope of resolving unpaid accounts, then we are not the firm for you. Our debt recovery service entails confronting debtors and piling on as much pressure as necessary to secure a resolution… We do not offer ‘phone call debt recovery’.

The goal of our debt collection service is to take things up a notch and make debtors aware of their obligations, and the potential consequences of refusing to make good on their debts. We have offered our debt recovery service for several years and are often seen as a last resort where others have failed.

Skip tracing in Thailand

Often our debt recovery service also involves an element of skip tracing; that is using investigative techniques to track down a debtor before approaching them with a view to collecting money. Skip tracing can take many different paths and is entirely dependent upon the information which is held by our clients in each case. If you need our help to track down a debtor then please feel free to get in touch with us; we will need to be armed with all available information on the debtor in order to assess the situation and consider how we’re able to help. 

Get a free quote

If you would like a quote for our debt recovery service then please get in touch with us and include all information relevant to your case. We will need to know some basic facts about your circumstances before we are able to offer a quote, such as the how the debt was accrued, whether the debtor is a company or an individual, whether the debtor is a Thai citizen or a foreigner, the amount outstanding, and whether or not you are currently in Thailand. Please be sure to include these details when getting in touch with us and we will gladly offer more information about our techniques and a quote if we are able to accept your case.

Please note that due to the nature of our debt recovery service we are not able to accept all cases that are offered to us, and we reserve the right to refuse cases which would not be a good match for our service. All work is completed on a case by case basis and we will need to assess the strength of your position before offering our service.

Our debt recovery service is focused on the Bangkok area. We can sometimes assist with cases in other areas of Thailand, please feel free to contact us with the debtors location (the Thai province and amphoe or town in which they reside), and see whether we can be of assistance.


Private investigators in Pattaya & Jomtien

November 18, 2020 - Reading time: 3 minutes

Pattaya investigations

Do you require the services of a private investigator in Pattaya? Our Pattaya branch office can help with a wide range of different issues including Thai lady investigations, foreign men investigations, background checks, corporate due diligence, missing people, and much more.

We cover all areas of Pattaya, Jomtien, and Chon Buri. We offer free quotes for all work, please feel free to reach out to us and see how we are able to help in your case. Please include any relevant details such as the location you need us to work so that we are able to understand your situation and provide a quote.

Hiring a private investigator in Pattaya

Pattaya city is known the world over for its wild nightlife scene... The town has an estimated 30,000 prostitutes actively working in beer bars, a go-go bar, massage parlours, night clubs, and many other places. With working girls in all areas of the city, it is no wonder that Pattaya is often described as “sin city”. We often investigate Thai women that are living in Pattaya in order to check whether they are being faithful while their partners are living overseas. However, checking on Thai ladies is far from the full scope of work carried out by us, and we handle an equal amount of cases involving foreign men that are visiting Pattaya. We can also help with corporate due diligence investigations, missing people cases, and more.

Contact us

We offer free, no pressure quotes for all work. Please feel free to contact one of our experienced team members and we will get back to you as soon as possible. 

Investigations agency in Chon Buri

Both Pattaya and Jomtien are located in the Chon Buri province, which is on Thailand’s eastern seaboard and approximately 80 kilometres from Thailand’s capital of Bangkok. Chon Buri is a popular destination for overseas holidaymakers and domestic tourists alike. Our services extend to all areas of Chon Buri province and across Thailand.

How to proceed

We are always happy to help and aim to assist our clients wherever possible. We recognize that instructing a detective agency can be a difficult decision for some of our clients, and we are happy to offer free consultations to all prospective clients. If we are able to help in your case then we will provide you with a free, no obligation quote. It will then be a matter for yourself whether to proceed with opening a case.


Evict a tenant in Bangkok

November 8, 2020 - Reading time: 3 minutes

Property eviction in Bangkok

Do you need to evict someone from your property in Bangkok? We recognize that if someone is living in your property against your will then this can cause stress and anxiety which can create a huge inconvenience to property owners or renters alike. If we are contacted by the true owner/lessor of a property then we are often able to help and evict rouge tenants, or other individuals, that are living in a property without consent. If you would like to learn more about our methods and pricing for property repossession, then please get in touch with us for a free consultation.

Rapid eviction in Bangkok

If someone is living in your property and you don’t want them there, then getting them out as quickly as possible would be a natural priority. Our team are standing-by and ready to help wherever possible. We can get to work as soon as we have received payment from you, allowing you to enjoy your property without unwanted individuals trespassing upon it. We can help to remove rouge tenants, and even Thai girlfriends or partners that refuse to leave. For a fast response, please include all of the relevant information when getting in touch with us. We will need your property’s address in order to provide a quote for vacating the premises.

Thailand property eviction service

In some cases, we have been able to help evict people from properties in areas of Thailand outside Bangkok, such as in the northern provinces of Isan. However, whether or not we are able to help in your case will depend on the exact area where your property is located – we will need to know which Thai province, district, and amphoe your property is located in, in order to determine whether or not we are able to help. Although we are based in Bangkok, we endeavour to help with property repossessions in other areas of Thailand wherever we are able to do so.

Proof of ownership

Suffice it to say that If you are seeking to evict someone from your property in Thailand, then you will need to provide adequate evidence that you are the sole owner of the property. This proof could come in the form of title deeds (a Chanote or Nor Sor 4), or other documentation such as a Tabien Baan (Thai house book), or a lease which exclusively lists your name. 

We can help to evict people from both homes and apartments (or condominium units). In some cases, we can also help to aid the process of vacating commercial buildings; however, whether or not we are able to accept your case will depend entirely on the circumstances. Please feel free to get in touch with one of our experienced team members and we will offer you a free, no obligation quote if we are able to help.

How to proceed

Please feel free to get in touch with us for a free quote. We will need to know the location of your property, your relationship with the tenant, and whether or not you are currently in Thailand. Please include these details along with any other relevant information and we will do our best to help.


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