Signs That She is Not a Good Thai Girl
March 27, 2020 - Reading time: 8 minutes
Updated: October 7, 2025
There is no single guide that can tell you if someone is a good girl. Everyone is different, but there are warning signs you can look for in your Thai girlfriend that might suggest she is not the wholesome partner you hope she is. These are some of the common red flags we see in real cases.
1. She works in a bar
If your Thai girlfriend works in a bar or has done in the past, that is a major red flag. Most bar girls we investigate are found to be cheating on their partners. No matter what she says, if she is part of the bar scene the chances of her being faithful are slim. Women in this line of work often become skilled at lying, telling convincing stories while seeing other men. We specialise in cutting through the stories and finding the truth.
2. She smokes cigarettes
A small percentage of Thai women smoke. Outside the adult entertainment scene it is still viewed negatively in many circles. If she smokes regularly, it can be a clue that she is connected to nightlife.
3. She has tattoos
Although views on tattoos are changing, visible ink on Thai women is still often linked to the sex industry. It is uncommon to see visible tattoos in typical office jobs. Tattoos do not prove anything by themselves, but they are worth factoring in with the rest of the picture.
4. She has two or more Facebook profiles
We see many cases where a woman keeps multiple accounts. One account shows her in a relationship with a European boyfriend. Another account shows her with an American partner. Different men, same setup. Often one account is for family and friends, while the other is used to curate a fake romantic life for foreign partners. It is a clear way to hide multiple relationships.
Did you know?
If you are romantically involved with a Thai woman who is legally married, her husband could sue you under Thai law. Social media posts, photos, and private messages can be used as evidence of a relationship.
We can confirm marriage and divorce status, and search for hidden risks by running a background check on your Thai girlfriend. This includes official marital history and family details, and we can use advanced OSINT checks to see if she appears on dating sites or in adult material. Every enquiry is handled privately and confidentially. We provide clear reports and free quotes before any work begins.
5. She is always talking about money
Wages in Thailand are lower than in many Western countries, so some financial help can be normal in serious relationships. If she brings up money constantly or always hints at problems, ask yourself if she cares about you or mainly about your wallet.
6. She says that all Thai men are bad
General claims like all Thai men are bad are a red flag. Many Thai men are loyal and responsible. Strong blanket statements can reveal more about her history and motives than about the reality around her.
7. Her English is unusually good
Fluent English can come from university study or from years of work with foreigners in nightlife areas. If her English is very good, think about where she learned it. The source can tell you a lot.
8. She drinks heavily
Drinking on special occasions is normal. If she is out every weekend or drunk often, she is likely living a nightlife lifestyle. That is not typical for most Thai women with traditional values or steady jobs.
9. She has no visible means of income
If she does not work but always seems to have money or is out late with friends, be careful. Many women in nightlife survive on gifts and support from multiple boyfriends. Some never ask directly, they wait until the boyfriend offers.
None of these points apply to my girlfriend. She is a good girl.
Maybe she is. Skilled scammers know which red flags foreigners watch for, and they avoid them. They visit temples with you, introduce you to family, and avoid asking for money for months to slowly build trust. If you have doubts, the only way to be sure is to verify with a proper background check.
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