Is My Thai Girlfriend Lying? Common Scams Exposed
May 9, 2020 - Reading time: 7 minutes
Updated: May 29, 2025
Worried your Thai girlfriend might not be telling you the whole truth? You're not alone. Every month, foreign men contact Bangkok Investigators with serious concerns about their partners — lies, infidelity, hidden marriages, fake pregnancies, and more.
Whether you're visiting Thailand for the first time or already in a long-term relationship with a Thai woman, understanding the most common scams and deceptions is essential. Our private investigators specialise in discreet background checks, marital record searches, and surveillance services across Thailand. If you're unsure about your partner, now is the time to act.
This guide outlines the most common lies told by Thai women in relationships with foreigners — based on real cases we've handled. And more importantly, what you can do about it.
⚠️ Relationship Lies
Lying About Being Married
This is one of the most dangerous lies we investigate. We've found cases where Thai women were still legally married while living with a foreign boyfriend. This isn't just deceitful — under Thai law, her husband can sue you for adultery.
Our background checks in Thailand include marital record searches so you can avoid legal trouble and emotional heartbreak.
Secret Thai Boyfriends
It’s common for a Thai woman to claim she’s single while secretly maintaining a relationship with a Thai man. He may even be introduced as her brother or cousin. Without local language skills, you’re an easy target.
Fake Love Confessions
Love-bombing is a real tactic. Telling you she’s in love early on can lead to quick manipulation — often followed by requests for money, visas, or emotional leverage.
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🧬 Identity Lies
Hiding Age
It’s very common for Thai women to lie about their age. Whether it’s to appear younger or qualify for higher dowries, this is easily checked by reviewing ID documents — which we do as part of all background checks.
Ladyboy Scams
We’ve handled several cases where clients were unknowingly dating ladyboys who had fully transitioned. Since Thai ID cards still list gender at birth, this can be confirmed quickly.
Fake Work or Education Claims
Many women falsely claim to be university students or have regular jobs, when in reality they work in the nightlife scene. We often see fake Facebook profiles with staged photos.
👨👩👧 Family Lies
Hiding Children
Some women claim to have one child when they really have several. Many foreigners are never told the truth because they never visit her hometown. Our checks include household registries and family verification.
Pretending to Be Pregnant
This classic scam is designed to pressure you emotionally. We’ve seen cases involving fake test results and even fake clinics. If you're being told she’s pregnant, get it verified fast.
Suspect a pregnancy scam?
Contact us confidentially — we can investigate clinics, medical records, and confirm the truth.
💵 Financial Lies
Hiding Debts
Significant debt is common in rural Thailand. Some women hide their family’s financial problems, only revealing them after the relationship gets serious. This can lead to manipulation or pressure to send money.
Manipulating Sin Sod (Dowry)
Women who’ve previously been married often lie about it to request higher dowries. We verify marriage history as part of all relationship background checks.
🎯 What You Can Do
If you're unsure about your Thai partner — their background, relationship status, or financial situation — don’t rely on guesswork. Our investigation services can help you:
- Check if your Thai girlfriend is legally married
- Find out if she has children or lives with a Thai partner
- Verify her identity, age, and gender status
- Confirm her employment, university, or nightlife history
- Identify debts or hidden relationships
- Track her movements discreetly with surveillance
We specialise in Thai Lady Investigations — background checks, surveillance, and targeted investigations for foreign clients in Thailand.
🔒 Stay Protected – Get a Background Check Today
If you're investing time, trust, or money into someone, don’t leave it to chance. Many of our clients contact us after being scammed. A small check now can save you enormous emotional and financial damage later.
Contact us now for a free, discreet consultation
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❓ Frequently Asked Questions
Can I check if a Thai woman is married?
Yes. Through official records, we can verify if someone is legally married, divorced, or has been involved in previous marriages.
Can I check if my Thai girlfriend is on dating sites or apps?
Yes, we can check this using specialist OSINT checks, which can be included as part of a background check.
Is it legal to follow someone in Thailand?
Licensed surveillance is legal when conducted ethically. We operate within Thai law to discreetly gather evidence of infidelity or deception.
Can I find out if she has children?
Yes. Our checks can confirm registered residents at her home, including children, partners, or elderly family members she may not have mentioned.
How do I start a background check?
Simply contact us through our secure form. We'll review your case, suggest the right service, and send you a no-obligation quote.
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