June 10, 2025 - Reading time: 6 minutes
Updated: June 11, 2025

As private investigators based in Thailand, we’ve seen countless relationships unfold between bar girls and their foreign boyfriends. Our job is often to check the truth behind their stories. Here, we expose five common lies these ladies frequently tell.

1. "I Won't Leave the Bar with Customers"

At our detective agency in Thailand, one of the most frequent requests from clients is to check your girlfriend while she works in a bar. Often these ladies claim, “I won’t leave the bar with customers,” but the truth can be starkly different. When asked to verify their activities, our investigators routinely discover that most do indeed leave the bar via a “bar fine”—despite having a boyfriend overseas.

“But my girlfriend is different! She calls me at the same time every night! She calls me all day!”

This routine is very common and doesn't prove loyalty. Bar girls understand their boyfriends’ suspicions and cleverly time calls to give an impression of fidelity. Some only accept "short time" customers, allowing them plenty of room to call at expected times. Others may even temporarily return to their rooms under pretenses such as "getting some clothes," make a video call to you dressed in pyjamas claiming to be tired, and then promptly return to their customers afterward.

Sometimes bar girls make calls to their boyfriends openly in front of customers who show no serious romantic interest, reinforcing the illusion of transparency. The lies are smooth, calculated, and incredibly believable unless thoroughly investigated.

If you want peace of mind, you either need to be with her in Thailand 24/7, or you can rely on our professional bar girl investigation services.

2. "I’m Single—There Are No Other Men"

Bar girls earn their living by interacting with numerous foreign men every single day. Realistically, your girlfriend likely has multiple men in her social media contacts and messaging apps like Facebook, WhatsApp, and LINE. Some may be seriously interested; others might just be regular customers or sponsors who frequently fly back to see her.

Young, attractive bar girls, in particular, rarely lack interested admirers or men waiting in the wings. Our investigations consistently uncover these hidden connections.

3. Lying About Personal Circumstances

Many bar girls lie about personal details, especially age, to appear younger and more appealing. It's not unusual to find women significantly older than they claim. Additionally, many bar girls are single mothers supporting children and families—yet some lie about having kids altogether. In one memorable investigation, a lady insisted she had only one child; our checks uncovered three.

Bar girls often understate their experience in the nightlife industry. A woman with a decade of experience working in bars will usually claim to have been working in the nightlife scene for just one or two years, understanding that extended bar work isn't appealing for serious relationships.

4. Debt and Financial Problems

Household debt is widespread in Thailand. According to Bank of Thailand data, Thai household debt frequently hovers around 90% of GDP, indicating how widespread debt problems truly are (source). To avoid losing face—a vital concept in Thai culture—bar girls rarely admit the extent of their debts.

Common excuses include medical bills, urgent family emergencies, or the infamous “sick buffalo.” The phrase "sick buffalo" has become synonymous with exaggerated or fabricated stories to extract money from sympathetic foreign boyfriends. Frequently, bar girls borrow money from loan sharks or pledge family assets to fund their entry into bar work, and these debts are often hidden behind convincing yet fabricated stories.

5. "I'll Quit the Bar for You"

A prevalent claim from bar girls is that they’ll quit the nightlife if supported financially by their boyfriends. Our experience and investigations repeatedly show otherwise. Even when provided a regular allowance, many continue secretly accepting bar fines and entertaining customers to maximize their income. Others will eventually return back to bar work after a period of sponsorship. This lie targets foreign partners seeking genuine commitment, yet without active support—financially, emotionally, and practically—these promises rarely become reality.

Conclusion: Can You Trust a Bar Girl?

Yes, you can have a relationship with a Thai bar girl—but realism is key. If you genuinely want her out of the nightlife, you must actively:

• Help secure her a stable alternative job immediately.
• Support her dependents financially and practically.
• Resolve her debts clearly and transparently.
• Do not allow her to work in a bar if you're not expecting her to accept 'bar fines' from customers.

Almost invariably, bar girls will accept bar fines and leave with clients unless provided a robust alternative. Even ladies regularly supported through monthly allowances often continue secretive bar activities. If you have doubts or want genuine peace of mind, our bar girl investigation service can discreetly verify your girlfriend’s fidelity.

We offer free quotes tailored to specific bars or locations. Contact us directly for a confidential consultation today, or visit our homepage for more information about us and the services we offer.

May 29, 2025 - Reading time: 4 minutes
Updated: June 8, 2025

Thailand is a dream destination for millions, offering tropical beaches, vibrant cities, and unforgettable adventures. But for loved ones back home—parents whose child is travelling to Thailand for the first time, or partners worried about infidelity—the excitement can quickly turn to anxiety. You might find yourself wondering: is Thailand safe for young travellers? Or perhaps you’re concerned about a partner travelling to Thailand alone. At Bangkok Private Investigators, we specialise in discreet protective surveillance in Thailand, ensuring your loved ones stay safe while giving you peace of mind.

Is Thailand Safe for Young Travellers?

Generally, yes—Thailand is a welcoming and safe country for tourists, including young travellers and backpackers. Millions visit each year without incident. However, certain areas and behaviours carry higher risks, especially for inexperienced travellers venturing into Thailand's notorious nightlife districts.

Popular locations like Bangkok’s Khao San Road, Pattaya’s Walking Street, or Phuket’s Bangla Road attract young tourists with affordable drinks, parties, and vibrant nightlife. These areas, though exciting, can also be hotspots for scams, substance misuse, and exploitation. With recent cannabis legalisation, drugs have become more accessible, potentially leading to impaired judgment and risky situations.

Many parents recall the British TV show "Sun, Sex and Suspicious Parents," where teens were secretly monitored by their parents while partying abroad. A notable Thailand-based episode featured young travellers engaging in heavy drinking and questionable decisions—including visiting red-light districts. The show highlighted just how easily good kids can find themselves in compromising situations without supervision.

Why Consider Protective Surveillance?

Protective surveillance isn't about mistrust—it's about responsible caution. It's about quietly ensuring your child or partner stays safe, without them feeling their freedom is compromised. Our professional private investigators discreetly shadow your loved one, remaining invisible but vigilant, intervening only if absolutely necessary.

Real Case Example: Protecting a Vulnerable Young Traveller

Recently, a UK-based mother contacted us, deeply concerned about her 19-year-old daughter’s first solo trip to Thailand. The daughter planned to meet someone she'd connected with online upon arrival in Bangkok. Understandably, this raised red flags. Our investigator discreetly observed their initial meeting at the airport, monitored the interaction closely, and ensured the daughter safely arrived at her accommodation. Fortunately, the online acquaintance turned out to be genuine, and the daughter enjoyed her trip without incident. Her mother was extremely relieved—knowing our team was there to confirm her daughter’s safety.

Surveillance for Infidelity in Thailand

Thailand's vibrant nightlife and adult entertainment industries also raise concerns about infidelity. Whether it's a partner on a business trip or a spouse enjoying a "solo holiday," suspicions can understandably arise. Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket, known for their party scenes and red light areas, can unfortunately be tempting places for infidelity.

Our private investigators discreetly observe and document activities, helping clients either confirm or dismiss suspicions with hard evidence. This approach ensures clarity and peace of mind, allowing you to make informed decisions based on accurate information.

How Our Protective Surveillance Works

• Discreet Monitoring: Our skilled operatives blend seamlessly into environments, keeping close watch without detection.
• Real-Time Reporting: Regular, confidential updates directly to you, tailored to your preferences.
• Immediate Response: Our team acts swiftly and discreetly if your loved one faces immediate danger or exploitation.

Our goal is never to invade privacy or interfere unnecessarily—only to provide an extra layer of security and peace of mind.

Get a Free Confidential Quote

If you're concerned about a loved one’s upcoming trip to Thailand, whether it's about their personal safety or fidelity, we invite you to contact us. Provide us with details such as travel plans, accommodation, and any specific concerns you might have. All consultations are strictly confidential, and we’ll provide a tailored surveillance solution designed to ensure your loved one's safety and your peace of mind.

Contact Bangkok Private Investigators today for your free confidential quote.

May 28, 2025 - Reading time: 5 minutes
Updated: August 13, 2025

Bangkok Private Investigators is expanding. We’re looking for reliable freelance field operatives in Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket, Chiang Mai and major Isaan cities (Khon Kaen, Udon Thani, Korat, etc.). If you’re already living in Thailand and searching for part-time work that pays per assignment, read on.

Why Work With Us?

• Flexible schedule – accept or decline cases around your other commitments.
• Project-based pay – competitive day rates plus expenses; a useful side income.
• Varied assignments – from discreet surveillance to address verification.
• No previous PI experience needed – the right attitude and reliability matter most.
• Local autonomy – work in the area you know best, using your own contacts and knowledge.

Typical Tasks

• Static and mobile surveillance on foot, motorbike or by car.
• Capturing time-stamped photos and video of subjects and locations (great for anyone seeking part-time photography work in Thailand).
• Confirming addresses, workplaces and accommodation.
• Discreetly interviewing neighbours, hotel staff or other sources.
• Gathering open-source intelligence (social media, public records, local chatter).

Who We’re Looking For

You must already be based in Thailand. Ideal candidates tick several of the boxes below:

• Fluent English; Thai language skills are a plus.
• Resident of—or able to reach quickly—Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket, Chiang Mai or an Isaan hub.
• Comfortable spending hours in the field in heat, nightlife areas or rural backroads.
• Access to reliable transport (motorbike or car) with a valid Thai licence.
• Owns a capable camera or long-zoom smartphone; a drone is a bonus.
• Background in private investigation, security, journalism, photography or hospitality welcome but not essential.
• Discreet, observant, patient and punctual—our reputation depends on your professionalism.

Equipment & Resources

You don’t need a Hollywood spy kit. A modern phone, power bank and patience often do the job. Let us know if you also have:

• DSLR or mirrorless camera with zoom lens.
• Action cam or body-worn camera.
• Drone capable of 4K video.
• Night-vision or low-light capability.
• Local contacts (hotel staff, taxi drivers, bar owners, estate agents). Mention the type only; we’ll talk specifics privately.

Availability & Commitment

• Most gigs are part-time: an afternoon tail in Bangkok, a weekend hotel watch in Phuket, a one-day address check in Udon Thani.
• We work around your main job or studies, provided you respond quickly, arrive on time and deliver clear reports.

How to Apply

Complete our contact form and include:

1. Your full name, age and nationality.
2. Where you live in Thailand and how long you’ve been here.
3. Current employment status or main source of income.
4. Availability (days/evenings, weekdays/weekends).
5. Transport you own (bike, car) and any camera/drone gear.
6. Relevant skills—surveillance, photography, report writing, Thai language, etc.
7. Any PI or related experience (if applicable).

We’ll review and, if you look like a fit, arrange a brief call. Successful applicants start on small tasks and grow into more complex cases.

Ready to Earn Extra Income?

If you’re already in Thailand and can spare a few hours for interesting investigative work, get in touch today. We’re keen to put your local knowledge—and camera skills—to work.

May 5, 2025 - Reading time: 5 minutes
Updated: May 29, 2025

At Bangkok Investigators, we are frequently asked by our clients about conducting thorough background checks in Thailand, especially when it comes to financial matters like credit scores and debts. Two very common enquiries we receive are:

• Can you check a credit score in Thailand?
• Can you check if someone has debts in Thailand?

Can You Check Your Own Credit Score in Thailand?

Yes, it is possible to check your own credit score in Thailand. One of the most convenient methods is to use your Thai banking app. Many major banks offer a credit report request feature directly within their mobile apps, allowing you to access your score easily. Typically, this service costs around 150 THB, and you will receive your report within a few business days via email.

Alternatively, you can request a credit report through your bank by visiting a branch. This service also costs around 150 THB. The bank will facilitate a connection to the National Credit Bureau (NCB), and you will usually receive your report within a week.

If you have concerns specifically relating to a Thai partner, we recommend exploring our specialised Thai Lady Investigations services, designed for discreet enquiries and targeted investigative checks.

Get a Free Quote Today

To discuss your investigative needs confidentially and receive a free, no-obligation quote, please contact us by opening a secure support ticket on our website. Our experienced investigation team is ready to assist you professionally and discreetly.