If you're trying to verify someone's education records in Thailand — whether they are currently attending university, completed a course, or have claimed qualifications — there are important things to understand about how education records are handled in the country.
While background checks do not typically include surveillance, it is possible to add what we call a lifestyle check — a discreet surveillance service which helps to understand someone's real-world movements, daily habits, and whether their lifestyle aligns with what they claim. This can be especially useful if you're unsure about their university attendance or general honesty. Our surveillance fee depends on the location of the case. If you'd like a quote, please let us know exactly where the work would take place.
Click here to learn more about our background check service.As private investigators based in Thailand, we’ve seen countless relationships unfold between bar girls and their foreign boyfriends. Our job is often to check the truth behind their stories. Here, we expose five common lies these ladies frequently tell.
At our detective agency in Thailand, one of the most frequent requests from clients is to check your girlfriend while she works in a bar. Often these ladies claim, “I won’t leave the bar with customers,” but the truth can be starkly different. When asked to verify their activities, our investigators routinely discover that most do indeed leave the bar via a “bar fine”—despite having a boyfriend overseas.
“But my girlfriend is different! She calls me at the same time every night! She calls me all day!”
This routine is very common and doesn't prove loyalty. Bar girls understand their boyfriends’ suspicions and cleverly time calls to give an impression of fidelity. Some only accept "short time" customers, allowing them plenty of room to call at expected times. Others may even temporarily return to their rooms under pretenses such as "getting some clothes," make a video call to you dressed in pyjamas claiming to be tired, and then promptly return to their customers afterward.
Sometimes bar girls make calls to their boyfriends openly in front of customers who show no serious romantic interest, reinforcing the illusion of transparency. The lies are smooth, calculated, and incredibly believable unless thoroughly investigated.
If you want peace of mind, you either need to be with her in Thailand 24/7, or you can rely on our professional bar girl investigation services.
Bar girls earn their living by interacting with numerous foreign men every single day. Realistically, your girlfriend likely has multiple men in her social media contacts and messaging apps like Facebook, WhatsApp, and LINE. Some may be seriously interested; others might just be regular customers or sponsors who frequently fly back to see her.
Young, attractive bar girls, in particular, rarely lack interested admirers or men waiting in the wings. Our investigations consistently uncover these hidden connections.
Many bar girls lie about personal details, especially age, to appear younger and more appealing. It's not unusual to find women significantly older than they claim. Additionally, many bar girls are single mothers supporting children and families—yet some lie about having kids altogether. In one memorable investigation, a lady insisted she had only one child; our checks uncovered three.
Bar girls often understate their experience in the nightlife industry. A woman with a decade of experience working in bars will usually claim to have been working in the nightlife scene for just one or two years, understanding that extended bar work isn't appealing for serious relationships.
Household debt is widespread in Thailand. According to Bank of Thailand data, Thai household debt frequently hovers around 90% of GDP, indicating how widespread debt problems truly are (source). To avoid losing face—a vital concept in Thai culture—bar girls rarely admit the extent of their debts.
Common excuses include medical bills, urgent family emergencies, or the infamous “sick buffalo.” The phrase "sick buffalo" has become synonymous with exaggerated or fabricated stories to extract money from sympathetic foreign boyfriends. Frequently, bar girls borrow money from loan sharks or pledge family assets to fund their entry into bar work, and these debts are often hidden behind convincing yet fabricated stories.
A prevalent claim from bar girls is that they’ll quit the nightlife if supported financially by their boyfriends. Our experience and investigations repeatedly show otherwise. Even when provided a regular allowance, many continue secretly accepting bar fines and entertaining customers to maximize their income. Others will eventually return back to bar work after a period of sponsorship. This lie targets foreign partners seeking genuine commitment, yet without active support—financially, emotionally, and practically—these promises rarely become reality.
Yes, you can have a relationship with a Thai bar girl—but realism is key. If you genuinely want her out of the nightlife, you must actively:
Almost invariably, bar girls will accept bar fines and leave with clients unless provided a robust alternative. Even ladies regularly supported through monthly allowances often continue secretive bar activities. If you have doubts or want genuine peace of mind, our bar girl investigation service can discreetly verify your girlfriend’s fidelity.
We offer free quotes tailored to specific bars or locations. Contact us directly for a confidential consultation today, or visit our homepage for more information about us and the services we offer.
Thailand is a dream destination for millions, offering tropical beaches, vibrant cities, and unforgettable adventures. But for loved ones back home—parents whose child is travelling to Thailand for the first time, or partners worried about infidelity—the excitement can quickly turn to anxiety. You might find yourself wondering: is Thailand safe for young travellers? Or perhaps you’re concerned about a partner travelling to Thailand alone. At Bangkok Private Investigators, we specialise in discreet protective surveillance in Thailand, ensuring your loved ones stay safe while giving you peace of mind.
Generally, yes—Thailand is a welcoming and safe country for tourists, including young travellers and backpackers. Millions visit each year without incident. However, certain areas and behaviours carry higher risks, especially for inexperienced travellers venturing into Thailand's notorious nightlife districts.
Popular locations like Bangkok’s Khao San Road, Pattaya’s Walking Street, or Phuket’s Bangla Road attract young tourists with affordable drinks, parties, and vibrant nightlife. These areas, though exciting, can also be hotspots for scams, substance misuse, and exploitation. With recent cannabis legalisation, drugs have become more accessible, potentially leading to impaired judgment and risky situations.
Many parents recall the British TV show "Sun, Sex and Suspicious Parents," where teens were secretly monitored by their parents while partying abroad. A notable Thailand-based episode featured young travellers engaging in heavy drinking and questionable decisions—including visiting red-light districts. The show highlighted just how easily good kids can find themselves in compromising situations without supervision.
Protective surveillance isn't about mistrust—it's about responsible caution. It's about quietly ensuring your child or partner stays safe, without them feeling their freedom is compromised. Our professional private investigators discreetly shadow your loved one, remaining invisible but vigilant, intervening only if absolutely necessary.
Recently, a UK-based mother contacted us, deeply concerned about her 19-year-old daughter’s first solo trip to Thailand. The daughter planned to meet someone she'd connected with online upon arrival in Bangkok. Understandably, this raised red flags. Our investigator discreetly observed their initial meeting at the airport, monitored the interaction closely, and ensured the daughter safely arrived at her accommodation. Fortunately, the online acquaintance turned out to be genuine, and the daughter enjoyed her trip without incident. Her mother was extremely relieved—knowing our team was there to confirm her daughter’s safety.
Thailand's vibrant nightlife and adult entertainment industries also raise concerns about infidelity. Whether it's a partner on a business trip or a spouse enjoying a "solo holiday," suspicions can understandably arise. Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket, known for their party scenes and red light areas, can unfortunately be tempting places for infidelity.
Our private investigators discreetly observe and document activities, helping clients either confirm or dismiss suspicions with hard evidence. This approach ensures clarity and peace of mind, allowing you to make informed decisions based on accurate information.
Our goal is never to invade privacy or interfere unnecessarily—only to provide an extra layer of security and peace of mind.
If you're concerned about a loved one’s upcoming trip to Thailand, whether it's about their personal safety or fidelity, we invite you to contact us. Provide us with details such as travel plans, accommodation, and any specific concerns you might have. All consultations are strictly confidential, and we’ll provide a tailored surveillance solution designed to ensure your loved one's safety and your peace of mind.
Contact Bangkok Private Investigators today for your free confidential quote.
Bangkok Private Investigators is expanding. We’re looking for reliable freelance field operatives in Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket, Chiang Mai and major Isaan cities (Khon Kaen, Udon Thani, Korat, etc.). If you’re already living in Thailand and searching for part-time work that pays per assignment, read on.
You must already be based in Thailand. Ideal candidates tick several of the boxes below:
You don’t need a Hollywood spy kit. A modern phone, power bank and patience often do the job. Let us know if you also have:
Complete our contact form and include:
We’ll review and, if you look like a fit, arrange a brief call. Successful applicants start on small tasks and grow into more complex cases.
If you’re already in Thailand and can spare a few hours for interesting investigative work, get in touch today. We’re keen to put your local knowledge—and camera skills—to work.