Is your girlfriend working at a Thai bar?

March 14, 2020 - Reading time: 4 minutes

Is your girlfriend working at a bar in Thailand? If so, you would wise to be very concerned about her activities while you’re out of the country. Most bar girls will continue to leave the bar with customers (bar fines) even though they already have a boyfriend. We have seen numerous cases where bar girls being supported by their boyfriends with regular money transfers still continue to earn extra cash by joining customers back in their hotel rooms.

Other women might convince their boyfriends that they “never leave the bar with customers” while their boyfriend doesn’t send them any money… The truth is that receiving money and bar fines from customers helps to support these women and allow them to put food on the table for their families. They will most always continue to leave the bar with customers in order to earn enough money to support themselves.

No matter what she says, no matter if you think she is different, if your girlfriend is working at a bar in Thailand then you need to be deeply concerned about her activities. Having dealt with hundreds of similar cases we know that most bar girls continue their trade while involved with a foreign boyfriend. 

It’s also important to be aware that many bar girls aim to have multiple foreign boyfriends at the same time. These ladies usually setup multiple social media pages for each boyfriend and are very cunning. The attitude that “it would never happen to me” helps this scam to flourish and stops the boyfriends from asking too many questions.

Realize that if your girlfriend is leaving the bar with customers you will never be able to detect this by asking her questions or trying to track her activity while you’re out of the country. These ladies are expert at pulling the wool over their boyfriend’s eyes. Some women might only agree to “short time” sessions with customers and call their boyfriends at the same time every night as ‘proof’ that they are not leaving the bar with customers. Others might call their boyfriends while on the balcony of their customer’s hotel room or make excuses to leave their customer and make phone calls in private. Some women have even been known to call their boyfriends while their customer is in the same room listening in on the conversation.

How to check a Thai bar girl

As a leading detective agency based in Thailand, our agents regularly check bar girls. We focus on the Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket areas but we also provide coverage across most of the country.

It is very easy for us to find out whether or not your girlfriend is leaving the bar with customers. Generally we will send an agent to the bar to enjoy some drinks and make small talk with the ladies working there. We typically offer the subject a drink before asking for her rates and establishing whether or not she is prepared to leave the bar with us.

We can also ask bar girls for their phone numbers which helps to demonstrate that they might be looking to recruit multiple boyfriends. If a lady hands out her phone number and says that she is single, this is usually a warning sign that she might be involved with multiple foreign men.

If you would like to investigate a Thai bar girl then please feel free to contact one of our experienced team members for a free quote.

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